If you are both in very early recovery...his sponsor most likely
is following the AA Big Book advice that the man should have
some time under his belt before the family is brought in.
That was written before Alanon started...now you have your
own program..for you. It will help you both let go of the
lethal and elusive fight for contol you have both been in
lately...the dance of the alkie and the codependent.
A breather for your souls.
Allow his sponsor to work on him....later on I believe meetings
together would be great..
Love,
:
Sherry