Marle, Dolly & Teke, Thank you for your input. You are all right it would not be good for me. I know that the only way he will ever be all right is if he does it for himself.
My heart is too soft & I worry too much about things I can do nothing about. If I go to see him I would only wind up worrying myself sick. It is too hard seeing him like this. Marrle one of the reasons I wanted to go is that I feel guilty because I have not yet visited him in his new place.
Thanx so much,
Diane