i think mr rozied is right rozied, it is his problem, i mean sounds like he just thought it felt better for him to tell you. what did he expect you to do about it? maybe you just want to see him just because you are mom, but if you this that seeing him is not good for you right now, maybe you could think it through first then decide if you still want to go.
i think that he'll eventually work it out on his own. maybe its time for you to do something that you've always wanted to do for yourself and didn't yet. maybe you could take a step back today, and think about it and then decided whether or not you still want to go tomorrow, one day at a time, even if you decided to go, you don't have to go now, or today. try to give yourself that time to decided what is best for you to do concerning him and let it be just because i'll make you feel better. i'm praying that he gets back up and continue in his recovery. i'm praying for strength for you and mr rozied.