thats good that you do have a guy friend that you can get an opinion from, but sometimes you have to be careful with them too. my best friend at work, got angry at me when i chose my now ah over him and to think, i didnt even know he felt the way that he did. he was the same age as ah, and we were far more compatable, we had the same birthday and all. we were so close, i thought. found out later, that it was just a cover. btw, i met ah at work too.