i'm glad you are able to put away a little too jewels, and i hope that bf gives enough to satisfy what you need. me, i really don't expect any money right now, i think maybe that was the reason for him volunteering to leave, maybe he had other plans for this wkend, but thats ok, nothing new, and i'm still not calling him for anything, when the time is right maybe next wk, i'll be calling childsupport and giving them the info that they may need to start payroll deduction. don't know how long he'll have that particular job though, useing, he can't seem to keep the same job for long. i sure hope that he's clean though.