Originally Posted by
cinderellawkids 
You may not be too easy as a mom, but rather just the facts that with a large family there are gonna be lots of visitors. SLowly start setting boundaries. Tell tehm if you need it quiet, or maybe when you get your room decor right retreat to there, they'll get the message
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believe it or not cinder, i do retreat to my room, its already pretty much decorated but they don't care about me retreating to my room, they act like they are at home like when they were little, they just carry on, even if i stay in my room the whole time. they don't care if i'm not even at home, if they can get in, then thats that, it like they have two homes. i guess thats the consequences of having so many children you don't know what to do, huh/ like the old lady in the shoe.LOl