Dixie, If you still have issues of trust, then maybe it is better to limit time spent with him. I know that if my daughter were to get clean, I would still force myself to keep my distance. I still don't trust myself not to tell her what to do or be hurt by things that might come up. When I see her now, we can connect for just a short time and then we end up in some kind of an argument. I still want to control things and at almost 21, my daughter has the right to make her own decisions, even bad ones. Hugs, Marle