no, we went to counseling twice, and the counselor said we were on the right track, to keep it up, but now my wife says she doesnt believe her, and doesnt trust her. also, i have asked her to come on here for support also, but she will not, as of yet.
i love my wife, but cannot take much more. i feel helpless.
the idea of aa to my wife or in laws is alien to them, there is no way, i dont think.