i think everyone has said what i would have suggested. if you know you cant be around the booze stay away. be honest with your family and tell them like it is. they can either take it or not its up to them. you are what is important here. it sounds like a fun time spending it with your family and ribs yumo! dont let others decide how you are going to feel. you have control over this and if you feel you might slip stay away. good luck...jason