STOP.... We are still calming down Chero... chill.....
I know you did not mean me IO Storm, but I am the one in control of these threads.
Im just doing the best I know how and want to stop the ball from rolling faster down hill then it has too.... so we are taking a time out to Breath
OK..... EVERYONE AFTER ME.....
BREATH IN...........................UMMMMMMMMMMMM........ ...BREATH OUT.....
repeat
BREATH IN...........................UMMMMMMMMMMMM........ ...BREATH OUT.....
repeat
Just give it some time without comment ... it will calm I have no doubt... after all we are all here because we hurt, .... hurt is such an extreem emotion that sometimes there are clashes when we are at different stages in recovery.
It is not a matter of being right, it is a matter of reaching out to the ones that hurt....