Dixied, part of the making amends is just just "telling" but being ready to start making the physical restitution also. just "telling" is futile.
Having now been sober for many years I have been on both sides, making them and receiving them. Where needed I made financial restitution and in one case was able to find a replacement article of like and kind for something I had intentionally broken in an alcoholic rage. On the receiving end, there have been several times when I have had to ask 'what do you intend to do about it?'
So I have to ask you Dixied, what did or do you want from the amends?
J M H O
Love and hugs,