Originally Posted by
oneeyeopen 
I think I also need to not beat myself up about what I have done in this relationship...it was done out of love, out of showing faith and trust all with the intention of helping. Yeah, it may be misguided, but it was done for the right reasons.
This is ssooo important, one eye!
It might feel like the progress is slow...but you are well on your way to recovery.
You can't change the past...
And as painful as some of it has been, you will come out of this a much stronger, wiser, more compasionate person. Believe it or not, some day you might actually be grateful for the experience in some wierd way. I never thought I'd believe this..but I do...
Keep going...
One step at a time...