My dearest friend loaned me her copy of Mars & Venus Starting Over (and now I'll hand in my Man Card) and after reading the first 50 pages or so I'm realizing how much healing and detaching I still need to do from past relationships.
Crud, it's like one step forward and two steps back. I can say with (almost) certainty though that it's getting a little easier with each passing day. Now if I can only get a decent night's sleep! Lol