I went and read the forum post you are talking about-I would not be happy if someone did this to me--but it looks like it has been removed.
My son was addicted to crack at 15-I did everything humanly possible to help him-he was young-When I found out just how far he would go to get the crack--I won't even say it here--I had him sectioned into the psych unit-and sent him to a 3 month lock down rehab. He DID kick the crack-and was grateful towards me told me ''I saved his life" I listened to my heart-fought hard to help him.
the down side now is he is an alcoholic and 27 and IN RECOVERY...I warned him not to drink but he didn't have a problem until he was about 21.....they do what they want. He has put himself and me through so much pain--I sure hope it sticks this time.
You guys have a nice forum here--very peaceful and open minded.
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