It's unfortunate controversy is continuing here.
When dealing with addicted loved ones people have every right to live and do as they feel helps them and others like them who suffer from the pain and devestation.
All addicts have a disease and are deserving of compassion. This does not mean any one has to allow or accept unacceptable behaviors.
I say live and let live. There are always personalities, differences and opinions, however it's part of our unity to place the principles of Naranon and Alanon before all else. Enough! We are not here to take any other's personal inventory or that of any group.