There have been plenty of times when I was just disgusted with some of the things that my daughter has done, just as everyone else has been on here. I could so easily let my anger rule my life, but I prefer not to and that is why I am on SR. It is because when I have posted an angry post, the great people on here have helped me to see that my anger serves no purpose except to hurt me. The problem with quoting me over there is that they do not know me. They do not know that I practice "hands off" my addict and I do not enable in any way. I have limited contact with my daughter. It is like taking something out of context. If they want to go back and read my entire story, then it is fine to make a judgement based on that. But not on one or two posts. Marle