Merle, I feel so sorry for all of us parents....we could have never imagined this journey when we held those bright, beautiful babies and dreamed of their futures........It is hard on anyone that loves an addict but IMHO it is hardest on the parents...There is a bond there like no other, we cannot walk away or start a new life, they are a part of our very being......I certainly was not suggesting that anyone read, learn or go anywhere that is hurtful to them....we have had enough hurt to last a lifetime....I was simply stating what worked for me....as you well know we must each find our own way, in our time and seek healing in the way that is right for us.
I pray each day for the addicts because each of them is someone's child and most importantly because we are all HP's children....
Peace,
Mickey