I felt the same way. They are VERY angry. And I couldn't deal with that. I still very much love the man I knew. And I truly believe that somewhere, deep inside, is the man I loved. I can't give up hoping on a man I knew since he was 11. He didn't start out life as an addict. And for 6 years he WAS clean & sober. So, in my mind, there is always hope.
Lynne