What a beautiful Post Duet...
I do believe in time that the hurt and pain does get better , I know for me the feeling of a lighting bold hit me is not as strong. Maybe it lessens each time we accept the feelings and deal with it. I feel that by opening up and accepting these feeling is a step ahead in our recovery. But it is hard to allow yourself to let them surface...terrify to tell you the truth, as never again do I want to feel that pain again, just seemed easier to bury the feelings. Maybe though at that point bury the feelings was the minds only way of getting through it, sort of a protection. As we gain strenght the mind allows us to deal with it. One soul can only handle so much at one time.
Rose