Marle..thank you so much for your kind words. The funny part is that my son knew that he was getting drug tested on a weekly basis. He knew that there was a possibility that he would have to enter a long term program or jail. And yet..he still continued to do drugs. I think this is when I really realized that he is addicted. What scares me is that he doesnt fear consequences. Or maybe he's thinking long term programs are his only way out. I'm really scared for him. Thanks again.