This has been some excellent reading material, thank you all for sharing.
Most of the time when I catch my AH in a lie, I don't even question him about it. He will just lie more and make me more mad. I let it go, well, I try anyway... But my favorite is when he will say that he has to lie to protect me from the truth. I just laugh one of my hysterical laughs that let him know I am not buying his line of BS one bit.
This morning he told me that his conseler at the Methadone clinic told him that he shouldn't be on the Methadone program, because the pain meds that he was taking from his Dr. were less addictive than the methadone is. Well, I don't know if this is true or not, but I don't think he mentioned to her about what ELSE he was taking that was NOT perscribed by a Dr.