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Old 04-06-2007, 10:04 PM
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alcohol_sucks
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: florida usa
Posts: 25
No contact. Of course, with children, it's a little harder. My ex ah cannot see the children right now (court ordered), until he passes a hair-folicle test. I have not discouraged phone contact with the kids, but now he always asks them to put me on the phone. It starts out simple, then goes to how ridiculous I am for not letting him see the kids. Pass a drug test, plain and simple...We still go through this about once a month. I hate putting the kids in a position to say "Mommy can't come to the phone", especially when he persists with them. But for my own sanity...it's just bad all around.

When I do talk to him, he asks why I make him feel so bad. I remind him that I didn't ask to speak with him. He calls drunk or high, lying still all the time, asking for money, telling me how "lucky" I am.

Just leave me alone!

Trying in Texas, it's hard. But it's better than the alternative...letting them make you even more nuts.
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