Marian...Welcome...Everything said before me is so on point. I just wanted to add my welcome and send some hugs and prayers for you and your family. I also had a daughter who was an addict and the downward spiral is so tough to see. I was a babe in the woods too, but the disease makes us get up to speed pretty quickly. Keep reading and posting and if you can, please find a meeting. I am fortunate to have a wonderful Naranon group within a reasonable distance, but if you can't find Naranon, try Alanon. These are programs for us...the families of addicts. I hope your son in law will join you. Hugs and prayers