Recovery is working on YOU. It matters not if it is recovery from addiction or recovery for the non-addict in a relationship with the addict.
While he is working on HIS recovery, perhaps you should try AlAnon or NarAnon meetings. You may find these very helpful. You have been hurt by all of this and you need to recover as well.
He has to focus on his recovery with perhaps even more intensity than he ever focused on his DOC. While he is doing that, you have the perfect opportunity to work on you.