liesagain

Ok Dolly, several have quoted you to me in the posts...........where you said codies jump back in at the first glimmer of hope..................

So okay, I am ready. Raedy for someone to tell me how else to do it how do you practice detachment?

I get the take care of yourself part...............protect your finances

BUT how do you get past it how do you go on day to day if your not ready to face the consequences that will come with leaving without slipping back into normal? Because normal and ok is what I want from him..........so yeah when he looks like he's doing ok I slid but how do I stop this and when will I even be able to be ok in the relationship if he keeps relapsing?

Thank you for listening and for any advise you may want to share