I think hes more embarrased about the mental health arrest than he is about anything else. U did the right thing what if u called his bluff and he actually followed through u wouldnt be able to live with yourself for sure. He is trying to take the blame off of him and on u cause if u would have said u were on your way and able to drive u would have never called the cops and HE would have never gotten a mental health arrest. Wonder how I know about mental health arrests. Been there........