I am dealing with the same issue, except my son is just turning17 and will be living with me for another year at least. He has been in rehab for 9 weeks with 3 more weeks to go. How will I stay out of his business when he gets home? Or should I? I appreciate what marle said about not being able to stop their rehab if it is going to happen. It's just a very antsy, scary feeling.
krhea