Hi all. Well, hope everyone's having a great weekend.
I'm doing well... however, have a problem - anticipated by all who've heard the story, I am sure. I broke up with ex-ABF about a month ago, and he will not leave me alone.
He's stopped coming by - thank goodness - but he sends text messages and calls and, I just can't deal with it anymore! He is using all sorts of things - namely the dog we used to share, which was a "gift" to him, so he's got him - to make me feel guilty. And it is kind of working.
Tonight it was "I thought we could still be friends" because I haven't gotten back to him. And trying to talk to other people about me too... trying to find out about me, what I've been doing, etc.
I guess I'm down to no-contact now. I used to respond to him, because I felt bad not doing it, but now - it just seems to fuel the fire.
I don't know what I want. I just want to hear that I'm doing the right thing, probably!
But anyone with similar experiences... your advice is welcomed.