I agree with the others; it would be better for YOU if you unplug from him. I had to do the same thing with my daughter. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, but now I realize how important that step has been to MY recovery. I pray it will eventually lead to her own recovery, but I am not in control of hers'.
Keep posting here; you know you will get the support that you need to go foward .
You deserve to be happy.
Terri