Hi Beachcatz, Hi Finally... Welcome to Sober Recovery!!!
The best way to get responses is to have a thread of your very own (mostly because folks here can see if they've responded to a thread, and may not realize someone new has showed up who ALSO needs advice or information).
To start your own thread (it can be as simple as, Hi, I'm new!) - go out to the forum list (the list of topics). At the top, on the left - you should see a "new thread" button, like this:
Push that button, and you will get a box where you can type the thread title and a larger box for typing your "post". Push the button at the bottom that says "Submit new thread".... and watch the responses appear!
Do hope you can find here all the help you need.
((hugs))
Welcome!