This is my first time here. This site was recommended by a friend at Naranon. I am the mom of an addicted 23 yr old son. I know that I have been an enabler, but I am trying to get healthier. I am going to meetings and praying a lot. My daughter,25, is also tired of how his behavior affects me and my relationship with her and her family. Today, he is in rehab, but when I don't hear from him, I get panicky that he has left. However, from past experience, he would call me if he had left. He is supposed to come home on a 24 hr pass today. I am kind of scared about that. I keep trying to make sense of something that doesn't make sense. Thank you for listening.