Originally Posted by
dragon76 
Why is he trying to see if you r scriptualy free to file? i know thats what he is doin
I had never told him before that AH has been unfaithful. I just didn't think it was any of his business. Here is that paragraph from my very long email:
"I know that you think I was wrong to file for divorce; (friend) told me that you felt this way. You are entitled to your opinion, but you have no idea what I have lived with for 25 years, and you have no idea how abusive that (AH) can be, and still is being. You have no idea how hard it has been to hold my children and home together without falling apart myself. And you have no idea how many nights I have rocked my babies while I cried until my husband got home at daylight with makeup all over his clothes and reeking of someone else’s perfume. I am sorry that you choose to judge what I have done as ‘wrong’. With all due respect, I would ask you to consider if it is even your place to judge it at all."
SO he can put that in his pipe and smoke it! LOL!