Originally Posted by
teke 
sorry but if this mutual friend is relaying all of these messages, maybe you can ask them to hold off for awhile too. what you don't know can't hurt. somethings are good to know but not all things. have you thought about the motive behind what this mutual friend is telling you and why?
I talked to her first thing this morning and asked her not to talk about this with anyone else from this point. She does understand the abuse, and she does support the divorce. She had a sister that died of multiple organ failure from years of alcohol and drug abuse. I have begun to look at her motives; I think she is trying to rescue me in true codie fashion. But we are close enough that I can call her on it.