Originally Posted by
Hangin' In 
Maybe direct him to Al Anon so he could learn to understand the disease of addiction and ask him to understand and give you the respect to deal with your situation as you see fit without outside "help".
He has actually talked to a physcian friend of mine who not only works with addicts now, but is in recovery from a fentnyl (spelling?) addiction that almost cost him him license a few years back. Dr T has laid it out as bluntly as possible, but says that the guy just isn't listening.
I did ask him to call me and I did ask him to leave it alone. I just hope he will before he makes a real mess of things.