NSW, I truly believe my HP knows when I reach that saturation point and sends me little reminders that he has things covered. I'm so sorry for how painful this is, but what you are going to do may save her life. I know you are being guided and that it is no coincidence that your daughter called.
My prayers that HP continues to guide you and to keep your daughter safe. Prayers for you and your sweet grandson...you are such a terrific mom and grandmother. I know HP will provide the clarity to know where/what next. I too remember how difficult it was for you to leave CA and I agree that you deserve happiness. If you are happy I know your grandson will be too. Hugs, hugs and more hugs and lots of prayers for all of you.