I understand that low, sad feeling that comes when you learn one more detail
of the self destructive lifestyle. It's so hard to bear. ((( NSW )))
I remember when you were packing up to leave California and how hard it was for you. It's wonderful you are caring for your grandson. I hope you move back down south if that is your heart's desire. Grandson can surely make the adjustment at his age and it could be a very positive change for both of you.
I hope your daughter is found soon and that she can be in a safer place.