Thanks Jewel and TXSunFlower. His DOC is Crack. I found the SR site by researching things like "Crack" "Inlove with a Crack Addict" and the affects, etc. Additionally, he does have a sponsor and he has been to meetings. I am not sure what his recovery was like 3 years ago when he stopped using then, but I knew that he was attending meetings. People who don't know much about addicts, etc. (myself included) have told me to run like the wind, but I cannot help but think that only one relapse in 3 years is a step in the right direction.