My addict never did that stuff. He's always had a job, paid bills, or as he likes to call it "put a roof over my head." That's why he says he's not an addict. LOL! What he did never effected me. I guess I imagined all the screaming,ranting,locking the food up. The total breakdown of our life together. He had the utter balls to lecture me on the fact that all the realtionships I had before where awful. That's why I didn't understand how good I had it with him. LOL! Of course, he turned everything into my fault.
He brought a woman into our home had sex with her, 2 days later was on the phone discussing all of my faults with her (too many too count) and seemed amazed that I left. Why? Because it was all my fault. What horsecrap!! I can't tell if he believes his bs or is trying to run really lame game.