i agree with givelove and greet, my husband served 2 yrs and i heard all of what you are hearing now, upon release, he was clean 3wk, and back at it, 2 couple wks later, he was back in there. i bailed him out and before he got home, he was using and went awol, i went and forfeit the bail and i did except no calls, sent no money or letters, i was so glad to just leave him in there. at least he was not out trying to kill himself. i think that it may help him if he stays in, may teach him that he don't want to go back.