I have a as who has been out of the house for over 3 weeks now. He's been using and detoxing for the last 2 years. Finally we threw him out with no money, no car. I am stuck with his partial school loan. He is now living with a friend who is letting him stay as long as he gets a job and can pay his way. I don't think he's found a job yet, so he may be heading to a halfway house. It took alot of courage for me and my husband to finally throw him out, but I am glad I did. Our house is so peaceful now.
I received 2 phone calls from him in 3 weeks. And all he wanted was to see if he could have his playstation. I told him he's got to be kidding. I'm stuck with his debt and he still wants. Told him no way, I will sell it to help pay off his school debt. It cracks me up how they still don't get it.
I too certainly feel your pain. Keep posting.