Originally Posted by splendra

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I think obsessing is a red flag...I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole...

Ya something I have found out about men is if they want to be with you no matter how shy they seem they will usually make the first move.

If this guy is flirty thru out the office I consider that a red flag but, then that is just me...he sounds a little gamie to me from what you have said about him. We all have lessons to learn he might be a teacher...