Not sure if it's the noraml thing , but it's un healthy regruadless.
Learned for Pain...a very, very painful lesson....at least it was for me.
My ex-wife was like the perfect model, The image of every man's dream
and she got hit on by other men a lot.
If we start loving oueselves...at least I did, that helps.
Work on self esteem issues...that helps
Not addicted to dramma anymore ...that helps
A relationship with a HP...that really, really helps