susankay,
I'm glad to hear that you're finding the help you need here at SR. It's a great place for recovery and I agree with the others that it would help to try some more meetings.
I attended meetings 4-5 nights a week at first and that made all the difference in the world for me. I had a weekly Alanon home group plus attended open NA and AA meetings.
You never have to be alone in this- we are here and so are others in the rooms of Alanon.
Keep coming back! (another slogan!)
hugs,
cmc