THanks all, I know that you are right. I don't intend on going to get him, but if he gets discharged they will call and ask me to come get him. I feel better now after spending time with bf and stepping back a bit. He has to deal with this and I agree that this is one of those life lessons he will have to face sooner or later. Thanks for the advice and listening to me vent....hopefully tomorrow will be better.
krhea