Remember how young he is and remember when you were that age EVERYTHING was a problem. I agree with the rest there might be a lesson here to learn that the problem might not be as big as he thinks it is. He is also at an age where he thinks alot about what other people think of him. I am not a mom so I dont have any advice just hugs. I am sure this is hard as I watch my mom cry everytime we have to leave my sister so she can go back and sit in her cell. It breaks my heart but there is a lesson that my sister had to learn. Unfortunatly the hard way.