i agree with the others, sorry that he's having a hard time for today, and you've already informed the counselors, so hopefully they will talk to him and help him to deal with whatever issue he is facing. in my opinion, one of the benefits of recovery is learning to live life on life's terms. i think that what he maybe going through right now, is a life issue. those kinds of disagreements happens, maybe he's in a better position right now to learn how to deal with this for himself so that you won't have to continue to do it for him once he gets out.