Nicole - Anvil and Teke have experience here and I agree you will do no good to continue to dial. On a diffrent note, my ex left for 5 days, x-mas was the 3rd day and by the 3 day I had just tried and did go numb. My xagf returned to having her things in a storage building and on the way out of my life. Frankly I didnt want to live like that so I began taking my life back. Someone disappering for 5 days? Say it outloud it sounds horrible. People expect thier mate to be with them, not in a fog, lost in a drug haze. I know a few people that if he or she was confronted with this disappearing BS they would be seperated and or divorced very quick. It would not be tolerated and I feel that IMHO it does not have to be or excused. I feel for you now Nicole. Good luck to you. You dont have to wait till the 3rd day before looking for him, you can stop looking now and just stop looking indeffinatley. This hit a nerve with me, sorry.