you guys made me think. my ah would come in some days and accuse me of using and i've been clean for yrs now. at the time,i kind of thought it was a sign that he had used or was about to use. true enough he would go awol for 3-4 days soon after that. so thats what it was, he was trying to divert the attention away from his using by trying to convince me that he thought that i was using, putting me on the defense while he goes on his merry way with his using............ lightbulb!!!!!