thanks for that calabash -
last nite at an alanon meeting (my first f2f) someone said how you have to be there, listen, not scold - i just sort of blurted (i tend to do that) but that's not fair - if i'm pissed - i'm pissed and i have a right to be pissed - i can still love unconditionally but i have to be honest and say what i feel or i fear my head would explode - the leader of the beginners meeting wasn't sure how to take that but most of the other beginners were right there with me - so i appreciate what you said - makes me feel a little less insane in all the insanity of addiction - after all we are only human...
love,
s
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*to thine own self be true*...