Thanks so much you guys. I love how supportive and honest everyone here is. Yeah, next time I will be calling the authorities in, Maybe when she wakes up cuffed to a bed she will think twice about taking me on one of her pity or guilt trips. I just want her back. We have already lost so much time and the kids are getting older and we just want her in our lives. All of her. I don't want to share her with the addictions any longer. And my children don;t need it. My husband works his programs so that my children would never have to suffer, i won't let my sister do it to them either.